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Counselling couples and individuals through marriages & relationships

848 Fennell Ave E, Hamilton  /  call or text 905.484.3388

"Therapy  When Life Sucks!"

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    I Love You. Will You Marry Me?

    As I sit here about an hour to go before ringing in the new year, I sense there are a lot of nervous guys out there looking at the clock, palms sweating, thinking about what is about to take place.  At midnight we ring in the new year.  For some, they are also ringing in a proposal to their girlfriends.  "I want to spend the rest of my life with you!  My love, will you marry me?!"

    Over the next several months there will be a lot of preparation for the wedding day.  The cake, the dress, the music and venue. Oh, the guest list.  Stress, excitement, nerves, doubts.  All of it is normal.  But I wonder how much thought is put into the actual marriage.  Personalities, communication, conflict resolution, individual and family goals, in-laws, finances, sexual intimacy, family planning.  Oh the list goes on!  How much time do couples really put into these conversations before their wedding?

    Considering divorce rates are near 50%, and second marriages around 70%, it is imperitive that planning is at the forefront.  Pre-marital counselling (a must in many US states!) will guide the couple through conversations that needs to happen.  But not just conversations.  Structure, tools, techniques and awareness of yourself and each other.

    If you know someone who is getting married, do them a favor.  Buy them a pre-marital counselling/planning package.  It's personal, its useful and its affordable.  In fact, it's cheaper than the wedding cake!

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